Have you taken the time to check out my socialize:friendships package? I’m spent hundreds of hours designing the package, taking into consideration security, usability, and data architecture best practices that don’t fight the way that Meteor’s data system works.
Using the package means that you don’t have to spend that same amount to time. You can get on with the rest of your app knowing that the friends part is taken care of.
If I have seen further it is by standing on ye sholders of Giants
have to deliver a beta for a customer tomorrow, and are almost finished with a simple contacts page. I will tjeck out your package ass soon as possible, but for now i have to use what I have.